🌸 Birth Doula Quick Reference
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Early Labor (Latent Phase)
0–6 cm · Contractions 5–20 min apart · 30–45 sec
Signs & Symptoms
- Mild–moderate contractions
- Bloody show or mucus plug
- Backache, menstrual cramps
- Waters may break
- Excited, talkative, nervous
Duration
6–12+ hrs (nullips); 2–6 hrs (multips). Highly variable.
Cervical Change
Effacement completes; 0→6 cm dilation
Doula Role
- Phone contact; reassure & normalize
- Encourage rest & light activity
- Advise on when to head in
- Suggest distraction (walks, movies)
Support Tips
- Light meals & hydration
- Warm bath/shower to relax
- Rest if night labor
- Slow dancing with partner
💡 Tip: "Early labor is a marathon, not a sprint." Conserve energy. If nighttime, encourage sleep between contractions.
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Active Labor
6–10 cm · Contractions 3–5 min apart · 45–60 sec
Signs & Symptoms
- Stronger, longer contractions
- Needs to focus & breathe through
- May feel shaky or nauseated
- Increasing pressure, less talkative
Duration
3–8 hrs (nullips); 1–4 hrs (multips). ~1 cm/hr after 6 cm.
Doula Role
- Continuous presence
- Lead breathing & visualization
- Counter-pressure on sacrum
- Position changes q30–60 min
Key Tools
- Birth ball, hands & knees
- Hot pack on lower back
- Walking & lunges
- Shower/tub if available
💡 Tip: Use the "3 Rs" — Relaxation, Rhythm, Ritual. Find client's rhythm and stick with it. Avoid changing things mid-contraction.
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Transition
8–10 cm · Contractions 2–3 min apart · 60–90 sec
Signs & Symptoms
- Intense, overlapping contractions
- Shaking, nausea, vomiting
- "I can't do this" statements
- Hot/cold flushes; strong rectal pressure
Duration
15 min–1 hr. Hardest and shortest phase. Say: "This intensity means you're almost there."
Doula Role
- Anchor with eye contact & voice
- Count through contractions
- "Just this one" mantra
- Cool cloth on forehead
Watch For
- Urge to push → notify nurse
- Bulging perineum
- Grunting/bearing down
- Sudden calm (complete!)
💡 Tip: Stay calm, low voice. "I know this is hard. You are doing it. One contraction at a time." Do NOT leave the room during transition.
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Pushing (2nd Stage)
Complete → Birth · Contractions 3–5 min · 60–90 sec
Signs & Symptoms
- Strong urge to bear down
- Rectal/perineal pressure
- Renewed energy ("rest and be thankful")
- Visible descent, crowning → birth
Duration
1–3 hrs (nullips); mins–1 hr (multips). Up to 4 hrs with epidural per ACOG.
Doula Role
- Encourage spontaneous pushing
- Support chosen positions
- Cool cloths, lip balm, ice chips
- Coach partner involvement
Pushing Positions
- Semi-reclined
- Hands & knees (posterior baby)
- Side-lying (slow crowning)
- Squatting / birth stool
💡 Tip: Encourage "breathing baby down" vs. prolonged breath-holding. Side-lying or hands & knees can help with perineal protection and fetal rotation.
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Placental Stage (3rd Stage)
Birth of baby → Placenta delivery · 5–30 min
What Happens
- Uterus contracts to expel placenta
- Cord lengthens at vaginal opening
- Gush of blood with separation
Management Options
- Active: Pitocin + cord traction
- Physiologic: No intervention; breastfeeding helps
- Delayed cord clamping if desired
Doula Role
- Support skin-to-skin contact
- Encourage first latch
- Keep environment calm & warm
Watch For
- Heavy bleeding (>500 mL)
- Placenta not delivered in 30 min
- Signs of retained placenta
💡 Tip: Dim lights, quiet voices. Help the family soak in the first moments together. Baby can stay skin-to-skin through placental delivery.
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Immediate Postpartum (4th Stage)
First 1–2 hours after birth
What to Expect
- Fundal massage, perineal repair
- APGAR at 1 & 5 min
- Newborn assessments
- First feeding attempt
APGAR Score
- 7–10: Normal
- 4–6: May need support
- 0–3: Immediate intervention
- A-Appearance, P-Pulse, G-Grimace, A-Activity, R-Respiration
Doula Role
- Advocate for undisturbed bonding
- Assist with breastfeeding basics
- Replenish snacks & drinks
- Prepare for doula departure
Family Support
- Skin-to-skin for 1+ hour
- Delayed newborn procedures if desired
- Emotional support & debrief
💡 Tip: Before leaving, ask "How are you feeling about your birth experience?" Validate all feelings. Leave written postpartum resources.
🧘 Positioning
Hands & Knees
Relieves back labor, encourages fetal rotation from posterior to anterior.
- Rock hips side to side
- Cat-cow movement
- Use on bed or floor mat
Birth Ball
Promotes pelvic opening and baby's descent. Reduces coccyx pressure.
- Bounce gently while sitting
- Lean forward over ball
- Figure-8 hip circles
Lunges & Stair Climbing
Asymmetric positions open the pelvis and help baby navigate the pelvic inlet.
- Foot up on chair/step
- Lunge during contractions
- Side-step up stairs
Side-Lying (Sims Position)
Great for resting with epidural. Alternate sides to shift baby.
- Peanut ball between knees
- Alternate L/R every 30–60 min
🌬️ Breathwork
Slow Breathing
Signals the nervous system to relax. Most effective in early and active labor.
- Inhale 4 counts through nose
- Exhale 6–8 counts through mouth
- Soften jaw, shoulders, hands
Surge Breathing / HypnoBirthing
Breathe "up" on inhale, "down" on exhale. Pairs with cervix-opening visualization.
- Slow nasal inhale
- Slow release exhale
- Visualize cervix opening
J-Breathing (Pushing)
Gentle alternative to purple pushing. Guides baby down in a J-curve arc.
- Inhale & direct breath downward
- No breath-hold beyond 6–8 sec
- Several gentle pushes per ctx
Patterned Breathing (Transition)
Prevents pushing before complete dilation. "Hee-hee-hoo" or blowing.
- Blow out candles technique
- Follow doula's rhythm
- Count 1-2-3-blow
🤲 Touch & Massage
Sacral Counter-Pressure
Most effective measure for back labor. Firm sustained pressure on sacrum.
- Heel of hand or fist on sacrum
- Apply at contraction peak
- Double hip squeeze variation
Double Hip Squeeze
Temporarily widens pelvic outlet and relieves sacroiliac pressure.
- Stand behind client
- Squeeze both hips inward & upward
- Maintain through contraction
Effleurage
Light rhythmic stroking on abdomen or thighs. Releases oxytocin.
- Fingertip circles on belly
- Light strokes on inner arms/thighs
- Follow breathing rhythm
Acupressure Points
Stimulate key points to intensify labor and reduce pain. Evidence-supported.
- SP6: 4 fingers above inner ankle
- LI4/Hegu: Web of thumb & index finger
- BL32: Sacral dimples
💧 Hydrotherapy
Warm Shower
Warm water on lower back or abdomen provides significant relief.
- Direct spray to lower back
- Lean on shower wall or ball
- Stay mobile inside shower
Birth Tub / Labor Tub
Water immersion reduces pain perception significantly. Often called the "epidural of water."
- Enter at 5–6 cm (active labor)
- Water temp ≤100°F (37.8°C)
- Stay hydrated; exit if temp rises
🚶 Movement
Walking & Upright
Gravity aids fetal descent. Walking encourages rotation and stimulates contractions.
- Walk hallways between ctx
- Pause & lean during ctx
- Dance with partner
Slow Dancing / Swaying
Rhythmic movement is deeply calming and releases oxytocin.
- Arms around partner's neck
- Sway and rock hips
- Hum or play soft music
Rebozo Sifting
Traditional technique. Loosens ligaments, relieves tension, encourages fetal positioning.
- Hands & knees position
- Sift belly side to side
- Also use on hips or shoulders
Supported Forward Lean
Shifts baby forward and reduces back pressure. Easy and effective at any stage.
- Lean on bed, table, or partner
- Hips higher than knees
- Sway or stay still
🌡️ Heat & Cold
Heat Therapy
Increases blood flow, relaxes muscle tension. Use on lower back, abdomen, or shoulders.
- Rice sock or heating pad
- Warm blanket for shaking
- Avoid direct skin contact
Cold Therapy
Cool cloths on forehead, neck, or chest relieve hot flashes, especially during transition.
- Cool washcloth on forehead
- Ice chips for hydration
- Cold pack on lower back
💛 Emotional Support
Verbal Affirmations
Calm confident words break the fear-tension-pain cycle.
- "You are strong, you are safe."
- "Your body knows what to do."
- "One contraction at a time."
Guided Visualization
Redirects focus inward. Helps during and between contractions to rest and reset.
- "Imagine each wave opening you."
- Picture baby descending
- Safe place visualization
Environment & Ambiance
Create a calm, safe space. Sensory comfort supports relaxation and oxytocin flow.
- Dim lights or battery candles
- Soft playlist or white noise
- Essential oils (lavender, clary sage)
- Limit unnecessary visitors
Partner Coaching
Guide the support person in active roles so they feel confident and useful.
- Assign specific tasks
- Teach counter-pressure technique
- Eye contact coaching
- Remind them to eat/rest too
Evidence-based, non-medical strategies are listed first for each challenge. Each entry notes strength of evidence. Medical escalation guidance is included only as a last resort reference.
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Failure to Progress / Slow Labor
Dilation stalls or slows; ctx irregular or spacing out
- Change positions frequently — hands & knees, lunges, side lunge, walking. Position changes q20–30 min can restart stalled labor.Cochrane review supports upright & mobile positions for labor progress.
- Rebozo sifting / abdominal lift & tuck — loosens ligaments, shifts baby into optimal position, may restart contractions.Traditional midwifery; growing evidence base for ligament balancing.
- Nipple stimulation — releases endogenous oxytocin, can strengthen and regularize contractions. Use 15 min on, 15 min off intervals.RCT evidence supports use for augmentation in low-risk labor.
- Warm shower or bath — relaxes pelvic floor tension that may be inhibiting descent. Many clients report ctx picking up after a soak.
- Rest & emotional safety — adrenaline inhibits oxytocin. If fear/stress is stalling labor, dim lights, clear the room, provide reassurance. "Sphincter Law" (Gaskin).
- Forward-leaning inversion (briefly) — 30-second inversions (kneeling, forearms on floor, hips up) can unbalance a stuck baby. Use cautiously.
- Hydration & nourishment — dehydration and low blood sugar can slow uterine activity. Encourage clear fluids, honey sticks, or light snacks if permitted.
⚕️ Consider flagging to care team if: No progress after 4+ hrs in active labor with adequate contractions, signs of fetal distress, maternal exhaustion, or suspected CPD (cephalopelvic disproportion). Medical options include AROM, Pitocin augmentation, or reassessment of presentation.
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Posterior Baby (OP Position)
Baby facing up (occiput posterior); causes back labor
- Hands & knees (all fours) — the single most evidence-supported position to encourage rotation. Baby's back swings forward with gravity.Supported by multiple RCTs and Cochrane reviews.
- Rebozo sifting on all fours — lateral sifting of the abdomen loosens uterine ligaments and invites baby to rotate.
- Open-knee chest position — knees on bed, bottom in air, chest down. Gravity + ligament slack encourages rotation. 10–15 min intervals.
- Asymmetric walking / stair lunges — uneven pelvic opening can help baby navigate from OP to OA. One foot up on a step or curb.
- Sacral counter-pressure — firm fist pressure on sacrum during peak of each contraction. Main comfort strategy for back labor pain.
- Heat on lower back — reduces pain and muscle tension from back labor. Rice sock or warm compress between contractions.
- Water immersion in tub — buoyancy removes gravitational restrictions; many posterior babies rotate spontaneously in water.
⚕️ Consider flagging if: Prolonged second stage with no descent, persistent severe back pain, or care provider suspects true OP arrest. Manual rotation or instrumental delivery may be offered.
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Asynclitism / Malposition
Baby's head tilted; not entering pelvis straight-on
- Lunge series — place foot on chair, lunge toward that side during contraction. Alternate sides to rock baby through pelvic inlet.
- Walking with exaggerated hip sway — encourages baby's head to engage and correct tilt.
- Figure-8 hip circles on birth ball — loosens the pelvic joints and invites baby to shift position.
- Hands & knees with hip sway — reduces pressure on asynclitic head, gravity encourages re-engagement.
- Abdominal lift & tuck (with rebozo) — lifting the abdomen during contractions can help engage baby's head more symmetrically.
⚕️ Consider flagging if: No engagement after 2+ hrs of positional work in active labor, or care provider suspects significant CPD. Ultrasound for position confirmation may help guide next steps.
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Induction Support
Supporting a client during medical induction (Pitocin, Cervidil, Foley, etc.)
- Emotional preparation & expectation setting — inductions often take longer than spontaneous labor (24–48 hrs not uncommon). Normalizing this reduces fear and helps preserve energy.Informed preparation reduces anxiety and intervention rates per evidence.
- Acupressure (SP6, LI4, BL32) — may support cervical ripening and contraction regulation alongside medical induction. Check with care team.Small RCTs show SP6 acupressure accelerates cervical dilation.
- Nipple stimulation — can work alongside or during early Pitocin titration to support endogenous oxytocin. Use with monitoring in place.
- Upright & mobile positioning — even with IV Pitocin, walking (with IV pole), birthing ball, and position changes support descent and reduce pain perception.
- Hydrotherapy (if permitted) — shower or tub if monitoring allows wireless/waterproof. Water significantly reduces induced labor pain.
- Prepare for intensity — Pitocin contractions can come faster and harder than natural labor. Establish coping rituals early. Reassess pain management options frequently.
- Advocate for informed consent at each step — induction involves sequential decisions (cervical ripening → AROM → Pitocin → escalation). Help client understand and consent to each step.
⚕️ Watch for induction complications: Tachysystole (>5 ctx in 10 min), non-reassuring FHT, uterine hyperstimulation, cord prolapse after AROM, or prolonged latent phase (>24 hrs) without progress. These require immediate clinical assessment.
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Prolonged or Ineffective Pushing
Baby not descending; client exhausted; pushing >2–3 hrs
- Change pushing positions — try squatting, hands & knees, side-lying, supported squat, or birth stool. Each opens the pelvis differently.Position changes shown to shorten second stage in multiple RCTs.
- Breathe baby down (J-breathing) — gentle, directed pushing on exhale vs. prolonged Valsalva. Reduces perineal trauma and is equally effective.
- "Rest and be thankful" phase — if no urge to push at complete dilation, allow passive descent for 30–60 min (with reassuring FHT) before directed pushing.
- Tug-of-war pushing — give client a sheet or towel to pull against during push. Creates counter-traction that helps direct effort downward.
- Cold cloth & ice chips — restore alertness and energy. Keep lips moist. Small sips of water or electrolyte drink if permitted.
- Progress narration — "I can see the baby's head" or "You're so close." Specific feedback is more motivating than general encouragement.
⚕️ Consider flagging if: No descent after 3+ hrs pushing (nullip) or 2 hrs (multip), signs of fetal distress, maternal exhaustion, or caput formation. Instrumental delivery or cesarean may be discussed.
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Emotional Crisis / Panic / "I Can't Do This"
Fear-tension-pain cycle; loss of coping; panic response
- Eye contact & grounding — get at eye level. "Look at me. Breathe with me." Mirror calm breathing. Physical presence is the most powerful tool.Continuous doula support reduces anxiety, pain, and intervention rates (Cochrane).
- Touch anchoring — firm hand on shoulder, hold hands, or a hand on the forehead. Physical grounding interrupts panic spiral.
- Reframe the moment — "This intensity means your baby is almost here." "You ARE doing it right now." Use present tense.
- Cold cloth or ice on face/neck — activates the dive reflex, lowers heart rate, interrupts physiological panic response.
- Count through contractions — "This one has a peak, and it's going to come down. 1…2…3… you're at the peak now…4…5… it's going down." Gives a finish line.
- Clear the room — reduce stimulation. Dim lights, remove non-essential people. Create safety and privacy.
⚕️ Consider flagging if: Client requests pain medication — this is always valid and supported. Also flag if dissociation, severe shaking, or inability to communicate persists beyond transition phase.
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Prodromal Labor
Regular contractions that don't progress; days of prelabor
- Rest & sleep above all else — prodromal labor is exhausting. Prioritize rest between contractions. Benadryl or warm bath before bed may help sleep (check with provider).Fatigue is the biggest risk in prodromal labor — conserving energy is evidence-based self-care.
- Normalize and reframe — help client understand this is real labor doing real work (ripening, positioning, dilation). It is not failure. It is preparation.Emotional framing significantly impacts coping and fear-tension-pain cycle.
- Positional work to encourage engagement — baby may not be optimally positioned. Hands & knees, forward lean, rebozo sifting may help baby engage and shift into active labor.
- Walk, then rest pattern — 20–30 min of brisk walking followed by rest. If ctx intensify with walking and fade with rest, labor is not yet established. If they persist — it may be transitioning to active labor.
- Warm bath (not shower) — if ctx slow or stop with immersion, it is likely prodromal. If they continue or intensify, labor is progressing. Also helpful for rest and pain relief.
- Nourish and hydrate — dehydration worsens cramping and false labor sensations. Encourage regular small meals and fluids.
- Emotional support and check-ins — prodromal labor causes profound discouragement. Frequent doula contact, validation, and a clear plan for "when to call you" is essential.
⚕️ Consider flagging if: Prodromal labor exceeds 3–4 days with significant exhaustion, decreased fetal movement, or client is unable to cope. Care team may offer cervical check, membrane sweep, or induction discussion depending on gestational age.
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Shoulder Dystocia Awareness
Baby's shoulder caught behind pubic symphysis after head delivery
⚠️ This is a obstetric emergency requiring immediate clinical response. Your role as a doula is to stay calm, support the birthing person emotionally, and get out of the way of the clinical team. Do NOT attempt any maneuvers yourself.
- Recognize the signs — head is born but retracts against perineum ("turtle sign"), shoulders do not deliver with the next contraction. Do not pull or push on the head.
- Call for help immediately — if you notice the turtle sign before staff do, calmly alert the nurse/midwife right away. Time is critical.
- Stay calm and anchor the birthing person — they will sense panic. Your voice and presence can keep them from thrashing or moving in ways that complicate the situation. "You're okay. The team is helping. Breathe."
- Support McRoberts positioning if asked — clinical staff may ask you to help hyperflexing the client's thighs to her abdomen (McRoberts maneuver). Follow their lead exactly.
- Immediate emotional support after resolution — shoulder dystocia is traumatic even when resolved well. Debrief gently, validate feelings, and encourage postpartum trauma follow-up if needed.
⚕️ Clinical maneuvers (for your awareness only — performed by clinical staff): McRoberts + suprapubic pressure (first line), Rubin II / Woods screw (rotational), delivery of posterior arm, Gaskin all-fours maneuver. Resolution typically occurs within 1–2 minutes with skilled team response.
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Umbilical Cord Awareness
Nuchal cord, cord prolapse — recognition & support
⚠️ Cord prolapse is a rare obstetric emergency. As a doula, your role is recognition support, emotional anchoring, and alerting clinical staff — not management.
- Nuchal cord (cord around neck) — very common (25–30% of births). Usually resolves spontaneously or with a simple somersault maneuver by the provider. Not an emergency in most cases. Help client stay calm if it is mentioned.
- Recognize non-reassuring FHT patterns — variable decelerations or sudden drops in fetal heart rate, especially after membranes rupture or during pushing, may indicate cord compression. Calmly note this to the nurse.
- Cord prolapse — signs to know — after AROM or SROM, a sudden large gush followed by FHT drop, or visible/palpable cord at the vaginal opening. This is an emergency. Call staff immediately.
- Positioning support if prolapse is suspected — clinical staff may place client in knee-chest position or Trendelenburg to relieve cord pressure. Help client hold position and stay calm while emergency response activates.
- Emotional support throughout — any cord complication is frightening. Your calm, grounded presence is the most important thing you can offer while the team manages clinically.
- Prenatal education — help clients understand cord complications prenatally so fear is reduced. Most nuchal cords resolve without intervention. True prolapse is rare (~1 in 300 births).
⚕️ Always flag immediately: Visible cord at vaginal opening, sudden FHT drop after ROM, or any concern about cord compression. These require immediate clinical assessment and potentially emergency cesarean.
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Prelabor Rupture of Membranes (PROM)
Waters break before labor begins; labor not starting
- Information & informed decision support — PROM at term: 80% of people labor within 12 hrs naturally. Help client understand their options (expectant management vs. induction) and timing per their hospital's protocol.
- Walking & upright activity — movement can encourage contractions to start. Gentle walks, stair climbing, hip circles.
- Nipple stimulation — most evidence-supported natural method to initiate contractions. 15 min on, 15 min off. Use with monitoring if available.
- Rest & patience if early — if no signs of infection and baby is fine, rest may be the best option if hospital allows expectant management window.
- Monitor for infection signs — help client track temp, fluid color/odor, fetal movement, and ctx. Report fever >38°C/100.4°F, green/foul fluid, or decreased FM immediately.
⚕️ Consider flagging immediately if: Cord prolapse suspected (gush of fluid + FHT drop), fluid is green/foul-smelling, maternal fever, or decreased fetal movement. PROM >18–24 hrs typically warrants induction per hospital protocol due to infection risk.
A collaborative tool to help your client identify and communicate their preferences. Check items that matter most to your client before their birth. Remind them that flexibility supports positive outcomes — preferences, not a rigid plan.
🌊 Labor Environment
Dim lighting
Lamps/candles instead of overhead lights
Personal music/playlist
Limit staff entry during contractions
Essential oils / aromatherapy
Lavender, clary sage, peppermint
Minimal interruptions for monitoring
Intermittent vs. continuous EFM (if low-risk)
Freedom to be mobile
Walk, change positions freely
💆 Pain Management
Prefer non-medical comfort first
Positioning, water, massage, breathing
Access to tub / shower
Birth ball available
Open to epidural if needed
No judgment — informed choice at any time
IV pain meds as bridge option
No unsolicited pain med offers
Client will ask when ready
👥 Support & Communication
Doula present throughout labor
Partner actively involved in support
Explain all procedures before doing them
Time to discuss options before decisions
B.R.A.I.N. framework preferred
Limit vaginal exams
Offered, not routine without reason
Photography/videography permitted
💪 Pushing & Birth
Spontaneous / physiologic pushing
No directed counting; push with own urges
Choice of pushing position
Perineal support / warm compresses
To reduce tearing
Avoid episiotomy if possible
Partner to announce baby's sex
Mirror to see birth / watch delivery
🌿 Cord, Placenta & Third Stage
Delayed cord clamping (2–5 min+)
Partner / birthing person to cut cord
Physiologic (undirected) placenta delivery
Keep placenta (for burial/encapsulation)
No routine Pitocin after birth
Unless medically indicated
👶 Newborn Immediately After Birth
Immediate skin-to-skin (1+ hour)
Delay newborn procedures
Weigh, measures, eye drops after golden hour
No formula supplementation
Unless medically necessary
Breastfeeding support immediately
Decline vitamin K injection
Discuss risks with provider first
Decline hepatitis B vaccine at birth
🏥 If Cesarean Birth Becomes Necessary
Doula / partner present in OR
Clear drape / gentle cesarean option
Skin-to-skin in OR if possible
Delayed cord clamping (if safe)
Partner stays with baby at all times
Music playing in OR
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